John 15:3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
Galatians 5:22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
This is the most important praise we can get. When God says "Well done my child"
Oh, how I long to hear them words. Seeking to make others happy will get us nowhere fast. But, seeking God we can have eternal life. We are to keep a check on ourselves often to make sure we are fruitful. If not we need to ask God to help us in the area we're missing.
May God Bless you on your journey.