Have your kids ever repeated something you said out in public? Then they say mommy said it. Mine have. There was no taking it back. Embarrasment and shame hits you all at the same time.
We have to set examples for our children and those around us. How are we going to represent Christ if we talk softly in church and have a bad mouth as soon as you get in the car? We can't. We are to use our words wisely. Not blurt out the first thing that comes out our mouth. We are to keep our negative talk to ourselves. How many times have you made a bad comment to someone? I'm sure at least once. We are to be kind and encouraging with our words. Let God help you choose your words more wisely.
May God Bless you on your journey.